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personal · February 27, 2017

I Took A Paycut to Pursue A Passion Project

I’ve worked in the corporate world for about 9 years, and to be honest, last year I was starting to feel a little burnt out.  You know that feeling when you just feel like you’re on a hamster wheel and you go through the motions Monday through Friday, doing what you can to get to the weekend, week after week after week?

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That was me.

The Sunday scaries hit me hard each week, and each Tuesday night (almost at the “hump” of the week) I felt like I was crawling toward the weekend.

The hustle is hard, friends. (Not that I need to tell you that!)

Working full-time and doing something else on the side has always been my life, whether that something else was graduate school or this blog. But I found myself thinking of both work and my blog as a chore rather than something I wanted to do. Even the little tasks like grocery shopping and making dinner made me want to flop onto the couch and sigh. (Sometimes I can be dramatic!)

Because of the feeling of burnout, I thought about going a completely different route with my career but didn’t feel like that was right – or that I would be ready for that if it was. (Serious question – is anyone ever really ready when they take a big leap??) So when I started a new job about a year ago, I negotiated my contract so that I would work 4 days a week instead of 5, having Fridays off.

I didn’t tell my employer why I wanted to only work 4 days in the week – I just said that was what I wanted. And they (kind of surprisingly!) agreed to the terms. I’d take a paycut, sure, but I was prepared for that and knew I wouldn’t be in a bad place financially by doing so.

I had a new schedule – Monday to Thursday in an office and 3 days to myself. But I didn’t just hang out on those Fridays! The goal was to use my Fridays to do something productive in terms of a passion project, which included splitting my time between freelance marketing work (which is fun for me!) and this blog.

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And at some point I decided to start doing something I had wanted to do for a while but just never had the time: I spent each Friday morning at a local dog rescue, helping them clean kennels, feed and walk and bathe dogs, and play with puppies. Like I said, I had intended to spend a couple of hours at the rescue, and to spend the rest of the day focusing on freelance projects and blogging, but that’s not entirely what ended up happening. I loved being at the rescue so much that I would spend 4 or 5 hours there some days!

And something pretty cool happened – my husband and my family started to notice that I was a hell of a lot happier. T actually said he hadn’t seen me jump out of bed like that in a while on the mornings I was headed to the kennel to start my Friday.

And I felt like I was doing good. I was doing well, sure, but I was also helping the local community and a community far away, too, in the many people whose lives’ work is rescuing dogs. (Living in MA, there’s a seemingly-never-ending supply of homeless dogs who are taken into rescue and brought up North to find a home. Many dogs come from TN, TX, GA… pretty much every southern state.) And you all know how much I love dogs, especially my Sprout!

To be able to spend half an hour or an hour just sitting in a kennel run with a completely terrified dog, helping them acclimate to their brand new surroundings (which I’m sure is terrifying to them), made me feel like I was making a real difference.

There were some other pretty awesome things that happened as a result of my new schedule. I did get to work on those freelance projects, helping small businesses (which has always been important to me), and my blog grew: Traffic doubled and I was able to make up some of my lost wages by adding in more sponsored posts. My social media accounts grew by leaps and bounds, and I was fortunate to connect with some pretty awesome brands.

So what’s happened since then, and why am I telling you about this now?

I recently accepted a new full-time position, and with that new position came some good things, but I also lost that extra day off. I don’t know what will happen in the future, even the near future, but I am so, so glad that I was able to take the opportunity to give myself a bit of a much-needed break to explore a couple of passion projects. It was so refreshing to take the time to do that for myself.

Would I do it again?

Absolutely.

Would I suggest someone else do it? If you’re prepared financially to take the cut, and you feel like you need a break, and your employer is okay with it, then 100% I would tell you to go for it.

I’m curious: if you could pursue any passion project, what would it be?

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Comments

  1. Marette Flora @ Floradise says

    February 28, 2017 at 10:43 am

    That’s a wonderful way to spend your free day! This isn’t exactly the same thing, but I recently took a month off work (last month, actually) to spend with my family. We are in the process of adopting and I wanted to spend more time with my toddler and husband. I lost out on wages but it was so worth it!

    Reply
    • Alyssa Loring says

      February 28, 2017 at 12:35 pm

      That sounds amazing! And congratulations on growing your family – how exciting!

      Reply
      • Marette Flora @ Floradise says

        February 28, 2017 at 12:46 pm

        Thank you!!

        Reply
  2. jennadesigns says

    February 28, 2017 at 11:12 am

    Sounds like that was very therapeutic for you! I hope you find balance with your new job. I work three 12-hour shifts a week as a labor and delivery nurse. I’d love to go down to two if we could swing it financially. I use my extra days to work on my blog, develop my e-course and spend quality time with my kids!

    Reply
    • Alyssa Loring says

      February 28, 2017 at 12:36 pm

      It definitely was! And thank you 🙂 Sounds like your schedule is pretty awesome, and what a job! You L&D nurses deserve so, so much credit for the work you do!

      Reply
  3. Jenny says

    February 28, 2017 at 11:58 am

    So awesome that they were able to give you Fridays off. I’m now self employed but a few months before I left my full time job for good they let me drop down to part time hours which was so nice.

    Reply
    • Alyssa Loring says

      February 28, 2017 at 12:36 pm

      Nice! I’ve heard from a lot of people that sometimes a shift in schedule is what you need to “right the ship” as they say.

      Reply
  4. Katriza Luna says

    February 28, 2017 at 12:09 pm

    I love that you are pursuing what you want to do regardless of the money. That’s really awesome and inspiring!

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    • Alyssa Loring says

      February 28, 2017 at 12:36 pm

      Thank you! 🙂

      Reply
  5. Sarah Jean says

    February 28, 2017 at 12:41 pm

    I wish I was able to do that. I love it! For my next job I hope to get one where I can work from home one day a week.

    Reply
  6. Shann Eva says

    February 28, 2017 at 2:14 pm

    That is awesome! Pursuing your passion is really what’s important. I’m excited to see where you new opportunity takes you!

    Reply
  7. kiki says

    April 21, 2017 at 11:09 am

    Wow – this is really inspiring and it’s something my husband and I have been talking about a lot lately. We have 4 kids so there’s a lot of forward planning but I’m happy to read your story and encouraging words!

    Reply
  8. Financial Panther says

    April 21, 2017 at 11:14 am

    The great thing is having the ability to take that paycut. I did something similar where I too a $50,000 paycut in order to get a better quality of life, yet because I’d been living on much less than I earn, the paycut basically had no effect on me.

    Reply
  9. Megan Tipton says

    April 21, 2017 at 3:16 pm

    I’m so glad that you were able to take that extra day off. I wish I had done so before the corporate world burned me.

    Reply

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