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Feathers and Stripes

Boston mom blogger | motherhood, baby + kids, family travel, + home

personal · May 20, 2015

Looking at the Future

What were your goals when you were a sophomore in high school? In college? What about as a brand new shiny college graduate?

I’ve always loved to make lists, so it should come as no surprise that I have had a list of life goals since early in high school. During my decluttering project I found a notebook that held one of these lists, and while some of the items are ones I have completed since 2003 (like getting my MBA and staying in touch with my closest friends), others are no longer goals of mine. And that’s okay!

The ladies of TheBBar posed two questions for this month’s linkup: What are you doing now to prepare for your future? And what do you think you should start doing to create a better future for yourself?

I’m answering both questions with one of the best pieces of advice I got in business school:

Revisit your goals often.

Your priorities are going to change, and you should be surprised if they don’t. You just have to remember that it’s okay to change with them. Who you want to be at 25 may not be who you want to be at 40. Over time you will evolve. Just make sure you are evolving in a positive direction, making changes to better your future. (I know, easier said than done, right?)

“Time is the only treasure we start off with in abundance, and can never get back.” 

With everything I’ve learned over the past 29 years (I’m old, I know), I highly recommend journaling or keeping track of what your goals are now, if only to look back at them 5, 10, 15 years from now. What did you think you would be doing at this age?

Linking up today with TheBBar and these other awesome bloggers:
Meg Biram – Liska Monet– 26 and Not Counting – soak and simmer – Knowing Kelly – Carrie Loves – Alyssa J Freitas – Manifest Yourself – Rae Loves – White Cabana – The Yuppie Files – Little Wild Heart – Life Modifier – The Not Quite Adult – Random Little Faves – Perfect Enough For Us – Always, Anita – Something Good – The Golden Letter – Leigh Clair – York Avenue – Sequins & Strawberries – Emilie Lima Burke – with love from ellie – rejoyce – Bite My Fashion – White Oak Creative – StyledbyKesha – xo lacey – Whitney Bangel Blog – always craving – Evann Clingan – Turning the Corner…Fearlessly! – IN THE GREY – Beauty and the Pitch – PRBlonde

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Comments

  1. Joyce Novacek says

    May 20, 2015 at 5:32 pm

    Great message! Truly, the only constant is change 🙂

    Reply
  2. Carrie @carrieloves says

    May 20, 2015 at 6:48 pm

    "Who you want to be at 25 may not be who you want to be at 40. Over time you will evolve." Exactly! Being open to adapting to your circumstances will help you make the most of your life.

    Reply
  3. Susie W. says

    May 20, 2015 at 7:30 pm

    I love that idea that our goals change and we should be ready for it! So perfect!

    xx,
    Susie

    http://www.SequinsandStrawberries.com

    Reply
  4. Susie W. says

    May 20, 2015 at 7:31 pm

    I love that idea that our goals change and we should be ready for it! So perfect!

    xx,
    Susie

    http://www.SequinsandStrawberries.com

    Reply
  5. Jessica says

    May 21, 2015 at 6:19 pm

    I couldn't agree more when you say that we need to evolve in a positive direction. I struggle with longterm goals, because things seem to change faster than I reach them, but I think if you stick with the mindset of positivity, you will be hard-pressed to fail.

    26 and Not Counting

    Reply
  6. Alyssa says

    May 22, 2015 at 6:51 pm

    That is so true!

    Reply
  7. Alyssa says

    May 22, 2015 at 6:51 pm

    I totally agree- like Joyce said above, the only constant is change!

    Reply
  8. Alyssa says

    May 22, 2015 at 6:52 pm

    If you're achieving your goals (even if they change a little bit), who cares when you reach them? Make sure you celebrate your achievements!

    Reply
  9. All Around The Midwest says

    June 1, 2015 at 4:25 pm

    Just found your blog and love it already! Goals definitely change daily and it's hard to make them all stick when you have such a busy schedule. However, writing them out does keep you on track!

    PS: Me and my friend have started a blog and we are completely new to this. Our blog is called All Around the Midwest: a Food and Travel Bog at http://www.allaroundthemidwest.weebly.com. We will be traveling to several locations through out the midwest states visiting and blogging about our experiences. Check it out and let us know what you think!

    Reply

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Hi, I’m Alyssa. Mom of three, wife, dog mom, blogger. I write tips and tricks on motherhood, focusing on baby gear reviews, the best toys for kids, family travel, and home organization.

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